directed by Eva Libertad

Today’s film is very important to me and I hope you will find some time to watch it. Personally, I’m not deaf and nobody in my family is, but I support the deaf community, I’m learning my country’s sign language and I wish our world was more suitable for non-hearing people. In this story we get to know Ángela (Miriam Garlo), a deaf woman married to a hearing man named Héctor (Álvaro Cervantes). They make a loving couple and seem to understand each other perfectly. Obviously, Héctor has learnt Spanish Sign Language, so living together hasn’t been anyhow difficult. However, some changes are coming, because Ángela is pregnant, which can be very stressful in her situation. She’s curious whether her baby is going to be hearing or deaf, and how each possibility might influence their future life. What if the hearing baby won’t build a strong connection with her? What if she fails as a mother simply because she cannot hear? And also, what if she stays on her own, because her husband and child will be “living their hearing life”? Those fears are not made up and I find them serious. Deaf people are almost invisible for the hearing, which naturally forced them to be cautious, even reserved towards others. On the one hand, I understand this fear and anger – because everyone should feel included and welcome. But on the other hand, I see many deaf people prejudiced against the hearing, which may lead to reverse discrimination and paranoia. Like in this story, Ángela is so insecure that she loses trust towards her beloved husband. She forgets that this is her life partner – she only sees him as a hearing person. Or just because, let’s say, the child would like to learn to play some instrument, it doesn’t mean they disrespect their deaf mother. Yes, hearing people hear, deaf people don’t. Period. That’s how it is. But we can still coexist and even love each other if only we give up on any ridiculous sterotypes and prejudices. And it takes two to tango – both sides need to open their minds. Still, it is a fact that the deaf are discriminated in the everyday life and you may see numerous examples in this film. I hope you’ll keep them in mind and try to make a change, at least in your own approach and practices.
My rating: 7/10
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