directed by Kristoffer Borgli

Perhaps rushing with marriage isn’t such a bad idea. You don’t have much time to really get to know the other person and then, when it’s done, you prefer to keep the ring on instead of paying for divorce. Being romantic is my superpower, I know. Today’s film points out two important issues that we don’t talk much about, so I’m positively surprised after watching it. Emma and Charlie (Zendaya & Robert Pattinson) are cute love birds that after a two-year relationship are about get married in few days. They seem to be a great match, but one evening changes everything. The couple share a drink with friends and at some point each person reveals something horrible they’ve done in life. When Emma tells her secret, everyone finds it incredibly disturbing. Charlie begins his inner battle, because he seems not to trust his fiancée anymore. Even though he’s spent two amazing years and fallen in love with his other half, suddenly it seems as if he was about to marry a stranger. A stranger with a dark past. This film isn’t just a romantic drama where lovers have an argument. To me this story shows two significant things. First, it reminds us that we’re no angels and if you believe your partner is purely good – then you’re either naive or have been dating for a week. We have all done something shameful and it’s actually worth sharing with our beloved one. This way you bond on a different level, because you open up showing your true and raw self. I hope being truthful and genuine will become a new couple trend. Gen-Z or Alpha babies – that’s your job. Second, the film also made me think how unprepared our society is for struggling people. What I mean is that if you share for example your mental problems with your friends, colleagues or even a neighbour, you might get judged and/or pushed away. And if you keep that to yourself, everything’s fine, you’re still in the “social club”, you go to parties, share drinks with besties and just one day the ambulance becomes your personal taxi to a psychiatric ward. But then, if you tell them about your struggles, they may leave you alone and it may intensify your symptoms. So, what’s the right thing to do? I can’t tell you, but I make sure to stay honest and talk about my struggles in order to accustom people to reality that they often run away from. Highly recommended.
My rating: 7/10
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