Help One Person Everyday. “The One With Hope” (2024)

directed by Ewa Marcinowska
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Long time ago I saw a short TV documentary about Anja. I was moved. Then, I read a book about her. I was amazed. Now, I’ve just seen this documentary. And even though I knew the story of Anja and Land of Hope, I cried a lot. That is why I would like you to learn about this film, because such reality and such inspirations must be shared. Anja Ringgren Lovén is a Danish woman who one day decided to leave everything, move to Nigeria and save children. Why? Because in Nigeria it’s still common for people to accuse children of witchcraft. Meaning, if something bad happens in the village or to the family, the child might be taken for a witch responsible for that. In such case, the child is beaten, harmed, sometimes even raped, and, in the end, banished from the village. Yes, it’s 2024 and it’s still a common practice. Some of those children die because of hunger, thirst, or simply because of the scale and seriousness of their injuries. If you’re furious right now, I’m sure you’ll appreciate Anja even more. She is obviously against this inhuman practice, so together with other brave people they are finding such children and try to save them. Sometimes they manage to find them on time, so after hospitalisation and decent care, those children stay alive. But sometimes, even their biggest efforts aren’t enough… If you haven’t heard of Anja and her Land of Hope (centre for the saved children in Nigeria), perhaps you’ve seen an extremely popular photo that was taken in 2016. In that photo, she’s crouching next to a two-year old boy and giving him water to drink. That child was horribly neglected and when the rescue team took him to the hospital, doctors weren’t giving him much chance for survival. Whenever I hear or read this story, I always have tears in my eyes. Imagine letting a two-year-old die in your village, right in front of you, simply because someone is accusing him for bringing bad luck. Do you understand it? Watching a child slowly dying because of some ridiculous belief. The feeling of anger and helplessness is just overwhelming for me. But, speaking of that little superhero, he managed to survive! Anja decided to name him Hope, which sounds more than perfect in such situation. Besides, to her, HOPE is also an abbreviation for Help One Person Everyday, which resonates with me strongly. Anja and her team literally save lives of those innocent children everyday, but it doesn’t mean your actions might be less valuable. You may help someone on the street finding their way, or help your colleague at work with some difficult task, or even help yourself – because you also need to focus on your own needs. Otherwise, you won’t be able to help others. And that’s another thing that Anja shares with us – she takes care of herself, of her family, because only this way she’s strong enough to help the abandoned children. As I said, I cried a lot watching this documentary – sometimes because of frustration, sometimes because of amazement, but those tears were very much healing to me. I can’t change the fact that numerous children get rejected and abused, but I can make small steps to help at least one of them. Personally, I’ve been a volunteer in a children’s hospital for over 10 years now – maybe I don’t save lives, but I do what I can to make those lives slightly better. Do what you can and stay mindful towards other people. That’s what humanity should be about, right?

My rating: 8/10
S.

Helplessness is the worst kind of illness. “Hope” (“Håp”, 2019)

directed by Maria Sødahl
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Do you also feel like Christmas time lasts at least several weeks? Shops are full of decorations, they play winter songs at the bookstore, you’re already planning the gifts and it’s not even winter yet. I cannot complain, because winter is my beloved season and I absolutely love when it’s snowing, I can relax with hot cocoa and watch a good film. And today I have a perfect recommendation for you if you’re also a winter gnome like me. This film is a difficult drama, but I believe it’s worth to see it before the end of the year, to perhaps reevaluate our priorities and plans. Anja and Tomas (Andrea Bræin Hovig & Stellan Skarsgård – both magnificent in those roles) are a lovely couple from Norway, who have a lot of children, a nice home and generally rather happy life. Unfortunately, right before Christmas, Anja finds out that she’s terminally ill. Obviously, the doctors want to do more tests, but they are pretty sure that the woman has few months to live. If you think it will be another drama where the two characters are holding hands in the hospital and cry for 30 minutes and tell each other “I will always love you” – then no. This story is horribly realistic, full of frustration, fear, arguing and searching for hope. Perhaps because Maria Sødahl, the director, based it on her own experience. And you can tell it’s her story, because this film is an emotional rollercoaster and still, I believed in everything she presented there. The message I got from this production is to use our time and be way more direct with our feelings towards the ones we care about. We don’t mind criticising, even everyday, it’s become something natural. Perhaps it’s time to make “I’m happy to be with you” more natural? Just a suggestion, you know. One of the best dramas I’ve seen this year.

My rating: 7.5/10
S.