directed by Monica Strømdahl

It’s not going to be a pleasant post, so if you need something uplifting, then keep scrolling. However, if you’re ready to see the consequences of American “freedom”, then have a seat. When I saw this film’s description, I was worried that my sensitivity may not handle it. But then, I highly appreciate such raw, realistic pictures showing what world we actually live in. So I pressed play and learnt a sad story. Mikal is just a little boy living with his parents in a motel. The family cannot afford anything else since money is a big issue. Plus, both of them struggle with addiction to substances, which isn’t cheap either, and which stops them from improving their life. This production is a result of about three years of documenting their reality, which doesn’t seem to differ from one year to another. We observe two adults stuck in their life, with absolutely no willingness to change anything, but also no strength to do that. And then, there’s Mikal, a child who was born into such reality, who just wants the same as other children: to have his own room, to go on trips with his parents, to get gifts for good behaviour. Or to simply feel loved and protected. My heart was aching from the beginning of this film as I’m incredibly sensitive about the topic of mistreating children. However, the critical moment was when Mikal lost his temper and screamed his opinion, his needs and his call for help to his father. The words coming from that little boy were nothing I’d expect from a child. That scene showed me that Mikal is way too grown up for his age (unhealthily), but also that he carries a lot of pain everyday. Did I cry? Don’t even ask… To me this is beyond imagination that we let children live in such families. I’m not saying his parents don’t love him – I bet they do. But those are two very lost adults who need help. The problem with overusing drugs and alcohol is way too common, especially in the USA. But no child deserves to be raised by addicts. And you know what troubles me the most? That a Norwegian filmmaker found such family and was with them for over 3 years, but during that time no social services decided to help the family. That Mikal was still stuck in a place where he had to be an adult taking care of 3 people. This is terrifying. The ending of the film is also difficult, so prepare for a demanding projection. Hope this film becomes a lesson to many people, especially those in charge who let it all happen. And let it all happen everyday.
My rating: 7/10
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