directed by Andrew Haigh

Who would have thought that one day Billy Elliot turns out to be Moriarty’s father. If you know, you know. If you don’t, you’ve skipped a great film and a great series. Anyway, let’s focus on today’s film because it’s truly magical. We get to know Adam (Andrew Scott), who’s a screenwriter living in London. The man’s life seems to be quite lonely until he meets his new neighbour Harry (Paul Mescal). At first, Adam isn’t willing to make any new friends, but slowly he opens up and gives Harry a chance. Except a neighbour-friendship, there’s some chemistry between those two, so it’s a more intimate relation we may observe. However, there’s an even more intriguing part of the film you need to learn about. Adam meets with a married couple that he apparently knows (Claire Foy & Jamie Bell). At some point we hear the couple referring to Adam as “their son”, which seems odd because all three are of similar age. This is the moment when you have to let you brain think in a more abstract way. Adam is indeed meeting with his parents, or rather their imagined versions. They both died in a car accident before Adam’s 12th birthday, so they look just like they did back then. We see that Adam is incredibly lonely and misses his parents, so those visions and meetings with them are his personal therapy. When he tells Harry about that tragedy, the neighbour is visibly sorry for him, but Adam assures him that it’s in the past, it’s fine. But we all know it’s not. That little boy wasn’t ready to lose two most important people in his life. As an adult, he still cannot handle that loss and he struggles with the worst kind of loneliness. Will Harry be the one who helps? He also struggles with his own problems, but maybe the only way to help each other is to open up about each other’s struggles and fight them together? This film is unique in its form. I have to admit that it was slightly too slow at certain moments, but generally I was amazed. Andrew Scott always gives 100% of himself and you can see incredible emotions coming from his character. I believe it’s a production that may be of huge help to adults who have lost someone in their life – either their family member, their partner, or even a great friend. There are many interesting interpretations, but to me, this film is about taking as much time as we need to process, but finally learn to let go. Horrible situations happen and we should keep moving no matter what. People come and go, sometimes we can’t do anything about it, but what we are able to do is take care of ourselves. And even if 1000 people have left us, we always have ourselves. And maybe that 1001st will stay a bit longer?
My rating: 7/10
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